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Journaling:
Letting
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Journaling and expressive writing improve mental, physical, and emotional well-being. Discover the healing power of words.



Bridget Rae Kaczmarek

Feb 4, 2023

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When was the last time you really connected with yourself? Noticed your breath, maybe a heart beat, heard the chatter in your mind or felt the answer in your gut? There are so many positive benefits to journaling. From self expression, enhancing communication skills, memory and help with strong and chronic feelings of depression and anxiety. As well as better sleep, stronger immune system and higher IQ.¹ All that without a pill that has side effects, now who wouldn’t want all that? 

A medical study was done on 70 adults with varying medical conditions where patients did 15-minute journaling sessions three days each week for three weeks.² At the end of months 1 through 3, surveys of psychological, interpersonal, and physical well-being were completed. Journaling was associated with decreased mental distress, increased well-being, less depressive symptoms and anxiety after 1 month and greater resilience after the first and second month, relative to usual care. There is a ton of research out there like this. Journaling is easy to do and costs practically nothing, however, it has huge benefits on your mind, body and soul!

You may ask, “where do I even begin”? There are so many ways to get things down on paper in a journaling practice, that it can be difficult to figure out how to start. I understand and also can relate to how a blank sheet of paper can feel. There’s a well-studied therapeutic journaling technique called “Expressive Writing” where you write continuously for 20 minutes about your deepest thoughts and emotions around an issue in your life.³ You can dive into how the topic affects you, or how it relates to your childhood, your partner or your parents. Or maybe how it impacts your  general relationships, career or children.

Just let things flow with no force. It’s really as simple as that.

Expressive Writing is traditionally done four days in a row, but there isn’t anything magical about this formula. Studies suggest you can journal a few days in a row, a couple times a week, or just once a week; you can write for 10 or 15 or 20 minutes; and you can keep journaling about the same topic or switch to different ones each time. Or maybe you just start writing whatever comes to mind and adding a few doodles too if that strikes you. Just let things flow with no force. It’s really as simple as that.

It’s good to make this practice yours and something that you want to sit down to. I suggest starting slow in order to really make it a habit. You could be the type who does it everyday for 5 minutes and eventually gets to 20 minutes a day. Or maybe you're the type of person to do it three times a week for 20 minutes each, then once you’ve accomplished that, you move on to 5 days a week of 20 minutes a day, eventually working your way to doing it 20 minutes daily. Another trick I like to use to get me writing is a nice pen and notebook. I know this may sound pretty nerdy but it works, trust me. If I have a good flowing pen and a notebook that lies flat rather than folding up on me, it makes things a lot easier and definitely less frustrating. After all, this is supposed to be a stress relieving tactic!

Are you ready to begin? Need help on where to start? Oftentimes, I have what feels like  the weight of the world on my shoulders due to awful repetitive thoughts swirling in my mind. I know I need to let go of them and that’s where journaling comes in.  If this resonates with you, grab some paper and a pen and try this “Letting Go” journaling exercise. 




Activity

Exercise:

Activity

Journal:



Letting
Go





Letting
Go




Req

◯ Quiet space
◯ Pen
◯ Paper




Time

15m


1 Grab a pen and paper and get relaxed. Take in a few deep breaths before you begin and center yourself.




2 Answer these questions in order:


What are you letting go of, or what do you need?

Let the answer or general thoughts flow on to your paper. Just write anything that comes to mind, there are no right or wrong answers here. Trust the process.

Why do you need to let go of this?

Explaining how you and or others would benefit from it.

What would life be like here on out without this now that it’s released?

How does this change things? Describe what it looks like. Maybe in the everyday motions or long term.



3 Keep this journal entry to review later to see how far you’ve come, or physically release it by tearing it up or burning it. Watching the thoughts physically being let go can have an added positive feeling of release and finality to it.





The process of journaling and letting go of emotions through expressive writing is a powerful tool for personal growth and well-being. However, it can be challenging at times, so it's important to be gentle with yourself and persevere in the practice. With time and consistency, you will surely experience the positive impact that journaling can have on your mind, body, and soul.

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By

Bridget Rae Kaczmarek

Certified Ayurvedic Practitioner
RYT